If you have established a new system
Well, yeah. But in all fairness to the conscious mind (our conscious awareness in this moment, the contents of our attention), it has more information available to it than it can pay attention to at once. Our attention is like a moving window on a part of the subconscious -- kinda like looking at only the part of a TV screen through a movable lens which is much smaller than the TV screen itself.The subconscious mind holds much more information than our conscious mind. When we see or experience something our conscious takes in only a fraction of what our subconscious mind can comprehend.
To be aware of these influences and know ourselves is really the only way you can make yourself into who you want to be. Most of us are lost, confused in ways we can't even begin to describe. We feel disconnected because our awareness of ourselves is lacking, but we do have the power and control to overcome any previous programing from any outside influence, it starts with awareness and the desire to change!