Hi,
What will you do if this situation happens?
I and my chinese gf working in her company. However my main job is at the university and i do my job remotely from her company.
Her previous behaviours:
1-My chinese gf two times had fight with me and fired me from home ( i had to rent a new home and paid much money). I paied this much money but these two times i came back to the home and reconcile.
2-She checked the security camera to see if i went to another women for 30 minutes or not. She did not find any proof and felt shame ( I forgave her)
3- One time i shouted on her, then, she called police ( as a foreigner in China is not safe). Police came and told be calm. After that she wanted to keep my by force i did not accept and we had fight and hitting, she called police again; this time we went to police station and handcuff.
4-She did abortion recently since the embryo heart was stopped.
5-- One time my phone did not have battery and that day i told her that i will have a meeting with my boss but he was not in his room so i talked with another colleague. Then , my gf called many times i did not answer. Then, she called my main boss. My main boss told her that no meeting. So, she was suspicious that i would have been with another women while i was with another colleague. When i arrived home, she asked me but was not convinced by my explanation because she thought it does not make sense. So, when i arrived home she started to make it big and then got angry and argued. Because i did not want to bring home issues to the outsiders (university, boss, colleague) and give my colleague number to her. She hitted me and i got angry and i also hitted her. Then, she threatened my by suicide; she was near to jump down i catched her. However, she tells now because she loves me she wanted to keep me, the suicide was a show. She pretended to suicide
Because she is independant she think men should follow the women and she has much pride
My behaviours:
1- I am trying to be calm. I try my best to do not hit unless she starts to hit or shout.
2- I also have this bad behaviour that when she does not listen and she is very stubborn i insult her
What will you do if this situation happens?
I and my chinese gf working in her company. However my main job is at the university and i do my job remotely from her company.
Her previous behaviours:
1-My chinese gf two times had fight with me and fired me from home ( i had to rent a new home and paid much money). I paied this much money but these two times i came back to the home and reconcile.
2-She checked the security camera to see if i went to another women for 30 minutes or not. She did not find any proof and felt shame ( I forgave her)
3- One time i shouted on her, then, she called police ( as a foreigner in China is not safe). Police came and told be calm. After that she wanted to keep my by force i did not accept and we had fight and hitting, she called police again; this time we went to police station and handcuff.
4-She did abortion recently since the embryo heart was stopped.
5-- One time my phone did not have battery and that day i told her that i will have a meeting with my boss but he was not in his room so i talked with another colleague. Then , my gf called many times i did not answer. Then, she called my main boss. My main boss told her that no meeting. So, she was suspicious that i would have been with another women while i was with another colleague. When i arrived home, she asked me but was not convinced by my explanation because she thought it does not make sense. So, when i arrived home she started to make it big and then got angry and argued. Because i did not want to bring home issues to the outsiders (university, boss, colleague) and give my colleague number to her. She hitted me and i got angry and i also hitted her. Then, she threatened my by suicide; she was near to jump down i catched her. However, she tells now because she loves me she wanted to keep me, the suicide was a show. She pretended to suicide
Because she is independant she think men should follow the women and she has much pride
My behaviours:
1- I am trying to be calm. I try my best to do not hit unless she starts to hit or shout.
2- I also have this bad behaviour that when she does not listen and she is very stubborn i insult her
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