(Please move if not appropriate) Unusual sexual desire

Oct 2021
Wilmington, NC
I have this persistent sexual fantasy about being a medieval style noble man. I hear one of my maids being spanked and think it's too harsh so after I rub her bottom and we have mutual oral sex. It's like I don't have a spanking fetish, more like a "comfort after the spanking" fetish. Is that normal?
Aug 2021
Texas, USA
Sorry, your will have to define normal, as that term has encompassed much more territory these days than when I was in school. As long as it remains a fantasy you are probably ok, but if you ever decide to role play it out, be sure and talk it out with your partner so they know and accept what is expected of them...