Please help me identify what is wrong with this person.

Jan 2021
2
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South Africa
This woman is completely controls every aspect of her children's lives, even now in their 20's they are not allowed to get licences or move out.
The daughter has been with her boyfriend for almost two years, they are extremely happy together and he treats her like a queen (He even drives 500km from where he studies to see her and then he has no money left for himself).
This woman has tried to make their lives hell stopping them from seeing each other etc...
Even now as adults they are not allowed to be alone together at all.
She has caused her daughter to get Anxiety Disorder and doesn't even know it.
She does not have a steady job and is a HUGE Gambling addict/Alcoholic
She believes that is in full control of every one and you are unable to talk to her rationally.
She has bi-polar/sociopathic episodes, during which she emotionally abuses her daughter.
Her daughter is extremely happy in her relationship and wants to get married, but she routinely tries to minipulate her to break them up.
The reason why she doesn't like the boyfriend is because he stands up against all this.
She is getting worse the older her daughter gets out of fear that her daughter will leave.
AND AFTER ALL THIS SHE DOES NOT BELIEVE THAT SHE IS WRONG ONE BIT.

Please help me identify what is wrong with this person (She also has ADHD and Epilepsy. And is also on heavy mess.)
 
Jan 2021
2
0
South Africa
She is a over-controlling mother that doesn't have a steady job has gambling addiction as an alcoholic and is over controlling with her children to the point where in their 20s they are not allowed to leave the house for one night without her permission
This woman is completely controls every aspect of her children's lives, even now in their 20's they are not allowed to get licences or move out.
The daughter has been with her boyfriend for almost two years, they are extremely happy together and he treats her like a queen (He even drives 500km from where he studies to see her and then he has no money left for himself).
This woman has tried to make their lives hell stopping them from seeing each other etc...
Even now as adults they are not allowed to be alone together at all.
She has caused her daughter to get Anxiety Disorder and doesn't even know it.
She does not have a steady job and is a HUGE Gambling addict/Alcoholic
She believes that is in full control of every one and you are unable to talk to her rationally.
She has bi-polar/sociopathic episodes, during which she emotionally abuses her daughter.
Her daughter is extremely happy in her relationship and wants to get married, but she routinely tries to minipulate her to break them up.
The reason why she doesn't like the boyfriend is because he stands up against all this.
She is getting worse the older her daughter gets out of fear that her daughter will leave.
AND AFTER ALL THIS SHE DOES NOT BELIEVE THAT SHE IS WRONG ONE BIT.

Please help me identify what is wrong with this person (She also has ADHD and Epilepsy. And is also on heavy mess.)
Oh and the daughter and boyfriend after two years of dating still can't even go to the movies together if she is not in the mood to say yes.