Longing for love affair

Jun 2010
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I never experienced much love from the heart from my family.

My father behaves as a short love affair towards me (he abused me in early childhood)
My mother dislikes and rejects me (as girls were rejected in former times)
In my heart I always remained lonesome (as a true development aid volunteer).

Now I've picked this 'man of my dreams'! A married, former teacher of mine, powerful, career-oriented, and he considers me as a simple comrade or workmate of his.
I simply can't forget him since 10 years now. I am projecting my parent's behaviour on him: Fast, lonely f affairs and heart-rejection.

HOW CAN I GO ON WITH IT? HOW CAN I EVER BE HAPPY IN A FULLFILLED LOVE AFFAIR FOR LIFE?

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Jun 2010
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FATHER SUCKS THE DAUGHTER'S FRIENDS, WHILE MUM ONLY LOVES FAMOUS TELLY STARS. DAUGHTER DEVELOPED LOVE DELLUSION BY PORNMAILS IN HER CHILDRENSROOM. SICKENSS UNDERSTOOD. WHAT TO DO WITH PORN (CHILD) ABUSE ?
 
Jun 2010
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Porn (Child) abuse

what to do with Porn (Child) Abuse ? Sex Therapy You also get caught by law for this, isn't it - although you are abused (as Pornmailopener) ?
 
Jun 2010
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Nazis make you sick

A schoolfirend of mine is crazy with me. her only sense in life is .... talking about sure, phoning about sure, writing about sure for the local government and privately, getting to know sures friends and starting affairs with sures lovers. She's paranoid. The parents of this following-me-in-thought-and-actions-former-friend-of-mine have been employed (and fired) in the same hospital I have been with - the relationsship was private - public.
 
Mar 2011
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Staten Island, New York
I am new to this site, would any forum regulars like to tell me what the rules are re: giving professional advice?
 
Mar 2010
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PA, USA
[quote author=ErikAndersen link=topic=1851.msg13755#msg13755 date=1301095739]
I am new to this site, would any forum regulars like to tell me what the rules are re: giving professional advice?[/quote]
As long as you don't give under false pretense, you are alright. If you are giving academically accurate information, it is best to provide links or describe, very well, your point and/or suppositions.
 
Sep 2010
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Why do you long for a love affair?
Why do you think this will make you happy?

The harsh realities are love affairs are fine in the imagination, in reality they are very different.

Why waste your energies, emotions on someone married? The energy and emotions you are devoting are wasted, personally I would recommend learning to love yourself, focus all that affection on yourself as you yourself are more worthy of the attention. You really don't need a man to be happy, often they bring misery. It is not like the movies or in imagination.
Don't waste you life longing when you could be living.
 
Jun 2010
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A World Bank Senior Consultant told me it wouldn't be nessessary to look up the rules of internet forums but once. iIt's always the same.

In general I think it shouldn't be allowed to earn money with mental health. But sometimes problems become so big, that you can't solve them alone.

I'm very proud that finally someone answered! How do you do ? There must me some rules, isn't it ?

I made it to rationalize my feelings and carry the heart in the head. I finally got rid of my parents by police force. And the same holds true for corruptive doctors.

Re: The heart wants, what the heart wants: Sometimes you're all corrupted: Friends quarrel and tell they're opinion around till the majority prejustices,,

parents are dull, doctors want to earn, and politicians suck. Finally every-day-life wants its share - and you're pretty sure that you can make it on your own.

Because problems finally aren't bigger anymore than yourself. I have you ! Please don't go away. I need you!

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