Gaslighting, or just factual observation?

May 2020
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San Antonio, Texas
So if you repeatedly observe a person being forgetful or somewhat delusional via their own detrimental actions and then mention it to them, is that misconstrued as gaslighting? How do you distinguish addressing factual observation of detrimental action and forgetfulness, from that of being misinterpreted as gaslighting?
 
Mar 2020
2
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UK
You can make a light joke of the situation, and how the person interacts. Best be gentle I think.