Thanks buddy but it getting problematic for me i can't focousing on study or day to day life task . My repetitive thought about a girl i met some month before and annyoing thing is whenever i see her didn't feel anything . Is that all chaos in my mind?Sometimes your brain needs a break from thinking all the time. That is when your mind wanders off course and takes a little break. Day dreaming can be beneficial in giving your brain a reset and allowing it to stay focused when you are working, but it can also become obsessive, causing you to not be able to concentrate on the business at hand...
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It's just love. Love makes you obsessed at times and that's normal. It's not unusual haha, why you've never been in love. I thought you were married. Best wishes.So, it sounds like what you are describing may be like the broken record syndrome where the same thoughts keep popping into you head and get into a cycle that you can't seem to break. If that is true, it borders on obsession, which is like a habit or addiction. If you want to help yourself, you can look into something like Cognitive Behavior Therapy, I like to start people with Cognitive Behavior Therapy for Dummies, which you can find at your local library or used. If this does not sound like what your are experiencing, keep trying to describe it, and we will keep trying to figure out what is going on...
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Yup i am agree with you it's not love but here question is it is obession or way of esacpism of my mind becoz i have to study all day and no social interaction i'm barely talk with people. Wait a minute first of all i have to describe my self so that things are get more clearDisagree, if it gets in the way of everyday life, working, school, and so forth it is an obsession, not love. I have been married 45 years, have two children and four grandchildren. I have a social network of over twenty friends whom I try to see at least once a month. I am pretty sure I know what love is. Love is giving unconditionally of oneself for the betterment of another. Obsession is "I just can' seem to get her out of my mind". To love her is to let her go. To obsess over her is to not be able to conduct normal activities because all I can do is think of her...
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Thanks for reply but i dont think it's love.I think you are just in love with this girl, that happens when you love someone... I don't really like the idea of love anymore tbh. Hope this helps! I think once you find that it is reciprocated it is going to get better, but until you find out, it's gonna be like that. I think what you mean is fantasizing about this person you care about, when you said day-dreaming, I was thinking of "hypersomnia" and thought, that's not good and was gonna suggest you visit a doctor.