Conflict of intrest

Jun 2021
I have been seeing a psychologist for sometime. I get my meds from her. My concern because, I have been in crisis (I'm ok) is that she has her husband as her secretary.
He emails me with appointments, med refills and I email her too.
Well, today she told me not to e-mail my concerns because it's unsafe. Now, I am wondering is it ethical to have her husband see patients info?
I have actually emails that show her husband emailing me for her.
Help! I feel fooled. She ghosted me today and I am kinda don