Boyfriend sexual intimacy fear


Sep 2020
I started dated my boyfriend almost 8 months ago. I initiated the date and the relationship because i had a feeling he likes me.
Anyways, i noticed he does not do a move to kiss me after a month i kissed him myself. Time goes and i see he wont initiate kisses and when we “kiss” he just wont kiss as it supposed to be.
Like kissing a child and never with a tongue and long.
Apparently he is a virgin and i thought he was just shy.
I decided to take it one step further and let him touch me, to make out. He touched my breast and then took his hand and said he didnt want to.
I tried several times to make him “make out” but it seems like he is frightened. I asked him, what is the problem? Why wont he initiate kisses? Or initiate makeouts? Apperterntly he doesnt want to. Now he proposed me and said he is attracted to me but when he needs to go on intimacy levels his brains take control over his passion and he just doesn’t seem to want to proceed.
I asked him “do you have the desire to touch women intimate parts? He said no.
He does masturbate and watch porn but he has absolutely no desire in touching.
I asked if he was gay? He said no
I asked if he had something abusive in childhood he said no.
Now, this problem makes me want him less and less. My attraction to him wasnt high at first place i just thought we can give it a try but now it is even lower.
I made him go to a therapy
Any suggestions? What can it be?